August 2020

Guys, Let’s Cut Through the BS!


Guys are masters of BS. I should know because I'm one of them. WHY ARE GUYS MASTERS OF BS? We live in a world where we are constantly trying to "fit in" and be accepted by other guys.  We compare ourselves based on how much money we make, what we do for a living, or [...]

Guys, Let’s Cut Through the BS!2020-08-19T10:23:29+00:00

My Passion and My Purpose


Something has been stirring in me this past year.  I've felt a calling to focus more on my passion and purpose. 12 years ago I started investing time and money in coaching and mentorship.  I was struggling with overwhelm, self-sabotage, overthinking, procrastination and perfectionism.  I still get stuck sometimes, but I've gotten much better at [...]

My Passion and My Purpose2020-08-11T11:48:48+00:00

Looking Like A Jackass In Front Of My In Laws


Have you ever had one of those moments you wish could rewind and do over?You know... you get that sinking feeling just thinking about it?I've had plenty of them... but this past week one came flashing back to my mind. I WANTED  TO REWIND AND DO OVER! In 2008 my wife's family rented out a [...]

Looking Like A Jackass In Front Of My In Laws2020-08-05T12:47:35+00:00

July 2020

Becoming A Crazed Lunatic


Who here has a dog?If you do, I'm guessing your dog has some toy that she is addicted to.Our little Yorkie Poo loves her tennis ball.In fact, when it is around she turns into a crazed lunatic.We try to use the ball sparingly so she doesn't completely lose her mind.We literally have to hide the [...]

Becoming A Crazed Lunatic2020-07-29T21:15:43+00:00


My friend has a very successful flooring business. He truly cares about ALL his customers and goes the extra mile to make sure he serves them at a high level. Last year his company did a phenomenal job putting in our new hardwood floors.  We really love them! A few months back I was talking [...]


Don’t Take Me Down To Funkytown


Lipps Inc. has a one hit wonder called "Funkytown." Do you know that song? The chorus goes "Won't you take me down to Funkytown?" Funkytown is not a real place but it can be a state of mind. I'm talking about going into a FUNK. ARE YOU IN A FUNK?  A FUNK where you feel: No [...]

Don’t Take Me Down To Funkytown2020-07-15T15:20:17+00:00

Check Yourself Before You Wreck Yourself


Lately it seems like we have more critics than ever.Everyone has an opinion on everything and they are ALL right Criticizing others is now the new national past time.I have a situation going on in my own life where my "self righteous" thoughts and critiques need to be checked.What I think and what is really [...]

Check Yourself Before You Wreck Yourself2020-07-06T21:54:26+00:00

I’m Such A Loser


So one of my friends is always berating himself. He falls into the trap of comparing himself to others. "I'm such a loser," is a common statement I hear from him. He's a great cook, awesome dad, and has a successful career.  But he measures himself on his physical appearance. He constantly tells me he [...]

I’m Such A Loser2020-07-01T16:02:19+00:00

June 2020

Have a Tendency To Procrastinate? Me Too!


Do you have a tendency to procrastinate?  I sure do.  Wait.  Let me rephrase that.  I don't LIKE to procrastinate.  It just happens sometimes.  I'm not proud of it - I can't help it.  I learned it from my mom.  She would agree. When I go on a trip, packing happens at the 11th hour.  [...]

Have a Tendency To Procrastinate? Me Too!2020-06-24T13:25:51+00:00

I Was Moving Like An Old Man For 3 Days


Have you ever done something impulsive only to have it blow up in your face? You know...doing something based on emotion versus critical thinking? That was me this past week. ACTING ON EMOTIONS RATHER THAN THINKING Two weeks ago I came down with a fever.  I got tested for COVID and quarantined myself until I [...]

I Was Moving Like An Old Man For 3 Days2020-06-17T12:31:27+00:00