To Do or To Be

Puravida Fitness • January 18, 2024

To Do or To Be

A man and a woman are doing exercises in a gym.

I've got an interesting thought for you today. 


"To do" or "To be." 


We all tend to go through our days with a "To Do" list. Executing tasks all throughout the day...work, home...some of them just mindless busy work that's not really serving a purpose in our lives. 


It's a wonder we tend to feel empty and unfulfilled at the end of each day.


What if we changed our thinking....what if our "to do" list becomes a "to be" list. A list all about how we want to be and why.


This is truly much more powerful.


In 2024, I'm committing to shift from just knocking out all goals to doing things that will reinforce who I want TO BE.


Here are a few of my examples.


I want TO BE a good ambassador for Jesus Christ. So my TO DO list includes:


  • Perform outreach / evangelism 2x/month minimum
  • Conduct one men's faith training each month
  • Disciple 8 men
  • Do a weekly volunteer activity (high school group, prayer team, single mom support)
  • I want TO BE an awesome husband. So my TO DO list includes:
  • Date my wife 2x/month
  • Have a getaway each quarter
  • Meet weekly to communicate on finances and schedules
  • Pray together 3x/week


I'm committed to improvement and being better in ALL areas of my life. But I know better doesn't happen by osmosis. In order to be intentional about your TO BE, I suggest following this simple 3 step process - it's the same one I use to focus me and keep me on track.


  1. Have a vision for each part of your life (marriage, business, physical fitness, spiritual, friends, mental, financial)
  2. Create an effective action plan for each area. Don't write a book. What are 2-5 things you can do consistently to keep you moving forward?
  3. Block time in your calendar for the action steps. What gets scheduled gets done. Fitting it in NEVER works.


Want to join me in my 2024 commitment? Would you like to BE more, not just DO more?


If part of your "TO BE" list involves getting in better shape or losing some weight, hit the blue button below and set up a Success Session with me. Together, we will come up with a realistic and effective game plan for you.


I hope this blesses you and we chat soon.


Dedicated to your success in 2024!


Erik Peacock

September 29, 2026
Back at my old job, I used to take yoga classes. One instructor said something that stuck with me: despite years of yoga, he could never seem to make his hamstrings more flexible. At the time, that sounded strange. Like most people, I had been taught that if a muscle feels tight, the answer is to stretch it more. But what if there is more to flexibility than stretching? The training that changed how I coach In 2010, I was introduced to Z-Health, a brain-based approach to movement. Some of the drills looked almost too simple, yet I saw people move better after doing them. I enrolled in two certification courses, and what I learned changed how I program workouts and help clients. The idea that stayed with me was that movement depends on communication between the brain and the body. When a joint feels uncomfortable or a movement feels threatening, people may tense up or guard that area. Repeating a stretch alone may not address what is limiting the movement. Today, I look beyond the spot that feels tight. I pay attention to how the joints move, how a client responds to a drill, and whether that drill helps them feel and move better. What works for one person may not work for another. Here are four lessons I use in my coaching: A tight muscle may be doing more than resisting a stretch. Discomfort or a sense of instability can change how a person moves and recruits muscles. Joint movement matters. Improving how a joint moves can sometimes make an exercise feel stronger or more comfortable. The nervous system is part of flexibility. How safe and controlled a movement feels may affect how much range of motion a person can use. Test, then retest. We try an appropriate drill, check how the movement feels afterward, and adjust the plan based on the response. Stretching can still be useful. I simply don’t assume it is the only answer every time someone feels stiff. What this looks like in a session Just today, I worked with a woman who came in dealing with a significant low back issue. We used gentle movement drills rather than stretching her back. By the end of the session, her range of motion had improved, and she said she felt and moved better than when she arrived. That is one person’s experience, not a promise that the same drills will resolve every back problem. It is a reminder of why I assess each client and pay attention to their response instead of handing everyone the same flexibility routine. The transformation closest to my heart My dad showed me what better movement can mean outside the gym. At 80, he had back surgery and became so weak afterward that he needed a walker. Hunting was one of his passions, and it looked as though he might lose the independence to do it. We worked on rebuilding his movement and strength using the principles I had learned. That October, he was walking with a walker. By April, he was hiking in the Black Hills, where he shot a wild turkey and even crawled under a fence to retrieve it. You can watch my dad’s story here . Mobility is about living your life At Puravida Fitness, our tagline is “Transforming Bodies and Lives.” Sometimes that means losing weight or building muscle. Sometimes it means having the strength, flexibility, and mobility to keep doing the things you love. Those are some of my favorite transformations. Helping someone move with more confidence, regain independence, or return to a favorite activity is about quality of life and longevity. To me, that is priceless. If you’re looking for a personal trainer who considers the whole person, we’d love to help. Puravida Fitness is a gym and health club in Lakeville focused on fitness and wellness for real life. We work with people from Farmington, Prior Lake, Burnsville, Apple Valley, Savage, New Market, and Elko. Learn more about Puravida Fitness .
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