Are You A Frog In Boiling Water?

Puravida Fitness • March 21, 2023

Are You A Frog In Boiling Water?

A frog is sticking its head out of a trash can.

Have you ever heard of the story of the frog in boiling water?


If you put a frog in a pot of boiling water it will instantly leap out. But if you put it in a pot filled with pleasantly tepid water and gradually heat it, the frog will remain in the water until it boils to death.


Crazy, I know. But to be honest, I've seen humans play out this scenario time and time again.


For example, there's a convenience store near my gym.


I've become familiar with the staff there since I go there quite frequently.


I've noticed a girl who works there has gained a ton of weight. 


When she first started going there I noticed she was healthy and petite. (I'm a fitness guy - I notice these things.)


Every time I went in, she was munching on some snacks or drinking a sugary pop.


Fast forward to now. She seems miserable - like her body has become a prison.


I have watched this negative transformation of hers happen through the years. 


It's a painful reminder of how gaining unwanted weight happens like the frog in boiling water.


You start compromising and making decisions that take you in the wrong direction...


Decisions like...


  • Skipping the gym because you are too tired
  • Eating crap food because you are stressed or it's too hard to make something healthy
  • Drinking alcohol every night to wind down after a stressful day.

The consequences of these frequent compromises don't show up right away. But over time they add up to poor health and weight gain. 


One day you are like the frog in boiling water. It might be a bad report from your doctor, seeing a picture of yourself or not fitting into your clothes anymore.


The water is now boiling.


However, unlike the frog you can escape.


Changing habits, having a good plan, and someone to hold you accountable can get you out of the boiling water.


Our 8-week F.A.T. Method program is our BEST weight loss program to pull you out of the boiling water and create lifelong habits to get the weight off permanently.


It start on Monday March 27th and includes the following components:


  • Weekly education module emailed to you laying out the plan and purpose for the week to move you forward
  • Weekly coaching and accountability call with one of our coaches
  • Private Facebook group exclusive to your F.A.T. Method group loaded with content and encouragement from other participants and our coaches
  • Weekly Zoom webinar focused on developing your mindset with tactics to help you win the weight loss battle once and for all.


Our spots are filling up! You can grab yours by going here or if you need more info, just reply to this email or text me at 952-220-2448. 


We are dedicated to 50 life changing transformations in 2023 and want you to be one of them. We have had multiple transformations from our initial F.A.T. Method group.


Check them out....


Holly L. testimonial 


Scot K. testimonial


Dedicated to getting you out of the boiling water,


Erik Peacock

September 29, 2026
Back at my old job, I used to take yoga classes. One instructor said something that stuck with me: despite years of yoga, he could never seem to make his hamstrings more flexible. At the time, that sounded strange. Like most people, I had been taught that if a muscle feels tight, the answer is to stretch it more. But what if there is more to flexibility than stretching? The training that changed how I coach In 2010, I was introduced to Z-Health, a brain-based approach to movement. Some of the drills looked almost too simple, yet I saw people move better after doing them. I enrolled in two certification courses, and what I learned changed how I program workouts and help clients. The idea that stayed with me was that movement depends on communication between the brain and the body. When a joint feels uncomfortable or a movement feels threatening, people may tense up or guard that area. Repeating a stretch alone may not address what is limiting the movement. Today, I look beyond the spot that feels tight. I pay attention to how the joints move, how a client responds to a drill, and whether that drill helps them feel and move better. What works for one person may not work for another. Here are four lessons I use in my coaching: A tight muscle may be doing more than resisting a stretch. Discomfort or a sense of instability can change how a person moves and recruits muscles. Joint movement matters. Improving how a joint moves can sometimes make an exercise feel stronger or more comfortable. The nervous system is part of flexibility. How safe and controlled a movement feels may affect how much range of motion a person can use. Test, then retest. We try an appropriate drill, check how the movement feels afterward, and adjust the plan based on the response. Stretching can still be useful. I simply don’t assume it is the only answer every time someone feels stiff. What this looks like in a session Just today, I worked with a woman who came in dealing with a significant low back issue. We used gentle movement drills rather than stretching her back. By the end of the session, her range of motion had improved, and she said she felt and moved better than when she arrived. That is one person’s experience, not a promise that the same drills will resolve every back problem. It is a reminder of why I assess each client and pay attention to their response instead of handing everyone the same flexibility routine. The transformation closest to my heart My dad showed me what better movement can mean outside the gym. At 80, he had back surgery and became so weak afterward that he needed a walker. Hunting was one of his passions, and it looked as though he might lose the independence to do it. We worked on rebuilding his movement and strength using the principles I had learned. That October, he was walking with a walker. By April, he was hiking in the Black Hills, where he shot a wild turkey and even crawled under a fence to retrieve it. You can watch my dad’s story here . Mobility is about living your life At Puravida Fitness, our tagline is “Transforming Bodies and Lives.” Sometimes that means losing weight or building muscle. Sometimes it means having the strength, flexibility, and mobility to keep doing the things you love. Those are some of my favorite transformations. Helping someone move with more confidence, regain independence, or return to a favorite activity is about quality of life and longevity. To me, that is priceless. If you’re looking for a personal trainer who considers the whole person, we’d love to help. Puravida Fitness is a gym and health club in Lakeville focused on fitness and wellness for real life. We work with people from Farmington, Prior Lake, Burnsville, Apple Valley, Savage, New Market, and Elko. Learn more about Puravida Fitness .
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